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TYPES OF HINDU MARRIAGES

According to Manusmriti there are 8 types of Hindu Marriages. They are Brahma Marriage, Arsha marriage, Daiva Marriage, Prajapatya Marriage, Asura Marriage, Gandharva Marriage, Paishcha Marriage and Rakshacha Marriage. Out of these 8 types of Hindu Marriages only the first 4 were religiously sanctioned.


In the Brahma Marriage the father of the bride gave her hand to a man who has completed brahmacharya (25 years of bachelorhood), well versed with the Vedas and has a good conduct. There was no system of dowry in this type of marriage. Kanyadaan was an important ritual of this marriage. The second type of Hindu Marriage is the Daiva Marriage. In this type of marriage the girl, after a fruitless wait for a suitable groom, is married off to a priest at a place of sacrifice. In the Arsha Marriage a girl was married off to an old sage because her family could not afford to get her married according to the brahma marriage. The bride’s side would take 2 cows from the sage in return of their daughter. In Prajapatya Marriage the bride’s father would go in search of a suitable groom for his daughter. However, there was no system of kanyadaan or dowry in this type of marriage. In Arsha Marriage the groom was not considered to be fit to marry the bride but did in so in exchange of cows.

The last four types of Hindu Marriages were condemned by the society. Gandharva Marriage was like Love Marriage of present times. The bride and the groom got married secretly without the knowledge of their respective families. In the Asura type of Hindu Marriage the groom was not supposed to be a good match for the bride but he married her because he could give away a lot of wealth in exchange of the bride. In Rakshasa Marriage the groom fought a battle with the bride’s family and forced the bride to marry him. Paishacha Marriage was the one in which the marriage was against the wish of the bride and her family and the bride was usually seduced before her marriage.

THE HINDU WEDDING

Hindu weddings are one of the most important ceremonies in the lives of the Hindus. The script is enchanted in Sanskrit, which is the language that is used in most of the holy ceremonies. Hindu weddings are considered as holy ceremonies and the rituals are carried out in an extremely traditional way. The rituals have changed over the years but the basics are the same.
The weddings are usually held in a temple. Some families as per their tradition might choose to have the ceremony in a particular temple. Sometimes a pyre is created at the marriage venue and the environment is recreated.

Hindu weddings are done in a ‘puja’ form as per the Puranas. It is a Vedic ‘yajna’, a Vedic sacrifice where the ‘devas’ or Gods are invoked. The Aryan deities are invoked in ancient Indo-Aryan style. It is performed in the presence of the fire-deity or the sacred fire known as Agni. By law and tradition, no Hindu marriage is deemed complete unless in the presence of the sacred Fire, the bride and the bridegroom have made seven encirclements.
The Hindu weddings are conducted by the ‘pandit’ or priest who is the master of ceremonies. The priest chants ‘mantras’ or holy chants as prescribed in the holy books. He recites various prayers and seeks blessings for the couple. Usually both the bride and the bridegroom’s parents are present at the wedding so that any minor variations in the two family wedding traditions can be resolved amicably.